You are too loud
If night after night, she tells you to not make noise when making love, she has every right to make you starve for sex. Moaning is certainly a turn on but imagine croaking and making noise like an injured hyena! Would you like it if your partner screams like one? We’d say, calm down and don’t fake it. Just restrict to seductive moans and groans and make way for some bedroom pleasure.

It’s messy down there
Not having waxed the private areas might be making her forbid you from entering her territory.
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So, it is always better to talk about each other’s preferences without creating discomfort. Not all of us want to see the mess!

Hope you don’t take her ‘no’ to your heart and reason it out with yourself. Like you, she too might want her space to breathe; you should let her be.